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This post has been written by my good friend Ramya)
Finally sitting down to deliver on my long overdue promise to write something on Pointy’s blog. And I waited this long partly because like everyone else I lead an action packed life which involves waking up in the morning, rushing to work, grabbing dinner, calling it a night and topping up the weekends with a few extra hours of sleep, catching some latest movie releases and complaining to friends about where life and everything else is headed in general. Does this sound familiar to the action packed life that any of you lead? If you reconnect with my second line now- the other partly is because all those inspirational speeches that evolve in my head as I read the papers during my daily commute, at best get reduced to a smattering of words pulled out from the GRE word list when I finally try to put them on written medium. (No prizes for guessing!!! I am no Jhumpa Lahiri). But I thought if events like the Mumbai Siege don’t get me to ask a few questions and (hopefully) get some answers nothing ever will.
My friend and junior from KGP, Khushboo Jha lost her fiancé (who was also my junior although I didn’t know him personally) in the attack at Leopold's cafe - so if things weren't bad enough already, now I have a face to put to it all.
Echoing the need for a political revamp in the country and touching upon the need for young, dynamic, honest, intelligent and upright leaders (as reflected in Aamir Khan’s blog) I want to say I know lots of people who may be ready to face up to the challenge. At the risk of sounding cliché, our circle of friends is supposed to contain the intelligentsia and the future entrepreneurs of India. This infers we have had a plethora of opportunity and resources at our disposal. It also infers we have survived in a rather competitive professional and perhaps personal environment till now. We are probably the best placed of all the common men and women that can rise to the occasion. Let’s just say there are enough amongst us who should not be afraid to at least make an attempt. But where do such highly motivated individuals go? How do you take the first step? Who do you talk to? If you are a professional jumping careers how do you convince people to take you seriously? And I mean not going from being an actor who has had the advantage of his face plastered on the walls and billboards in every village and town to a politician but someone like a banker or a scientist wanting to move into politics? Common sense dictates strong participation and involvement in the community and a good network are good places to begin. I can think of many of us who already do this then what are we missing? Would we be missing less if we were all human rights lawyers in which case we’d be mixing professional and personal interests and therefore have more visible community-based brownie points? As for the network, I shudder at the thought of that spiralling back to our same doddering, sick old politicians. Who is going to give me the confidence that not being from an illustrious political family will not be seen as a serious set back? I know politics is a dirty game, but if I am able and willing to work hard, will the system work with me? My scepticism sounds naïve I know. But isn’t this what’s stopping a lot of us from walking out the door of Mckinsey and walking into the Lok Sabha? Of course, the nosedive in income notwithstanding!!!!!
On a different note and because of its relevance in today’s world, combating terrorism, like everything else in this world has to come with the buzz word ‘sustainability’. And here’s how- Having specialized in Energy and doing what I do, I have decided Energy Independence and Energy Security should be made a priority for the government and a household term in India just like it is in the US or UK. Of the few things our government does correctly I see the nuclear deal as a step in the right direction. If all those EIA projections are right, we are going to be paying one hell of a price in the next 15-20 years for our own destruction. Meaning, the fraction of the oil money to the Middle East that can trickle down to the wrong hands! Where I had kept an open mind on the matter earlier, in the light of the Mumbai incidents I am wary of our gas deal with Iran because right now my mindset is ‘guilty until proven innocent’ rather than the other way round. Looking into the future, as I seek out professional opportunities if I work to meet the challenge that Vilas Muttemwar outlined, then this time I will have mixed work with pleasure!!!
“We have huge resources of renewable energy in the country. To begin with we have a potential of five trillion megawatts of solar energy, 70,000 megawatts of wind energy and more than two lakh [200,000] megawatts of hydrogen energy. We are now tapping this potential to meet our requirements." Asked by BBC Hindi why resources of renewable energy were not gaining popularity in the country, the Minister replied: "There is a widespread impression that usage of renewable resources of energy is less cost effective in comparison to the conventional resources”. Rest of this at http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2006/02_february/13/bbchindi.shtml.
With this thought lingering around my head from time to time, I am not very proud of the fact that it took a tragic event like this for me to make up my resolve. Spreading awareness on Energy Security will be top on my agenda.
I am a firm believer in women’s empowerment (not surprising considering I am a woman) All those with me on the issue of women’s liberty, we need to go full bore to help Muslim women find their voice. There are some interesting cases in the U.K where a mother was able to revert back a boy who had joined a terror training camp to normalcy. Boys will be boys, and coming from IIT I know how twisted their brains can get between the ages of 18 and 21. Little wonder why these boys are caught at this age and fed the wrong sentiments. A strong mother figure can influence them to stay on the right track. The doctrines I preach are not easy or will not happen anytime soon. But sustainability was never synonymous to quick-fix. There maybe many of you out there, who disagree, please do- that’s the only way we can be sure we haven’t left any stone unturned.
As for getting politically astute, time will tell. Although I am one for lofty ambitions, I need to make sure I can sustain this feeling of desperate need for a political overhaul long after the over-sensationalized media coverage of the Mumbai attacks have stopped. But I feel if enough of us keep an open mind about politics at least a handful of us are bound to stride into it. The stuff I am saying is not exactly ‘light bulb flash in the head’ material. It is stuff that even an average person calls ‘all too obvious’. But then which of these obvious things have we done right before? If enough graduates from Harvard and MIT hadn’t gone into politics as did into Google and Goldman Sachs, U.S politics wouldn’t have been as exhilarating as it is today. Hell, how on earth are we to become the world’s next super-power 10 years after China (according to popular belief) if our private sector keeps drifting away from our public sector labelling them a comedy of errors? On the contrary I would say considering how the private sector has led practically all the development in our country, maybe we should encourage a new form of venture capitalism that focuses on ‘able leaders’. The return on their investment will be a strong government. Follow the Obamas of the world.
For now, campaigns like ‘Jaago Re’ www.jaagore.com which is encouraging our country's Gen X to get out there and vote - is a promising start.We are the generation that’s seen snail mail go to email, arrange marriages turn to love marriages, paanwalas carry mobile phones and lardy, muffin-top trotting Bollywood actresses turn steaming sizzlers- nothing is impossible for us!!!!!!!
I’ll stop for now or else Pointy won’t let me hog more of his blog space next time.
15 comments:
Hey Ramya,
Very well written..As we discussed at length, the change cannot occur overnight...it will be a slow process
Very thought provoking indeed. And very well written too.
There is an old saying that 'Politics is the last refuge of a scoundrel' and that holds particularly true in India.
In the U.S., the history of bottom-up political mobilization dates back to the '60s when the student body and the academic intelligensia first sowed and later mobilized the seeds of political discontent. That has been helped immensely by top-class international relations and public policy schools like the Kennedy school at Harvard, the Fletcher school at Tufts, the Woodrow Wilsin school at Princeton, etc. India needs to establish more such public policy schools to encourage greater contribution and involvement from our vast pool of talented youth who can only thing of engineering and medicine as career options.
Oh boo-freakin-hoo.
Easy to pontificate from a gazillion miles away!
India. Sucks. Period.
I have a trainload of cliches too. Like, talk is cheap. Opinions are like a certain part of your anatomy, everyone has one. Or, insert YOUR favorite one here.
If i got a dollar every time some desi espoused what you have, i would be richer than Bill-freaking-Gates.
Good luck. All of us need lots of it.
--R.S.
Excellent point raised Ronnie. I guess engg and med were options popularized when every parent in India wanted their kids to have job and income security. Hopefully as things change and they have, we think beyond. Silver lining on the cloud- events like this have the potential to catalyze that process.
I opened this skeptically, thinking it was yet another regular desi in the US cribbing! I got quite a few of such blogs forwarded ofllate to me and have been frankly quite pissed of with the NRI whiners! But this was very well written! with some good facts and a great point to ponder about, "what can we do other than cribbing from where we stand today". I dont think most of us can handle the sacrifices we have to handle with working for the country, pay-cut being the most trivial one! but with any of our professions if we could do some good, things will change. The talking has to go down, people should reflect their concerns in actions. I personally found in this whole event media earning the most brownie points! and looking at the youth in India, I really doubt if things are going to change any soon. Movements like jaagore/janaagraha are really a wonderful step and by being a part of it we could do our bit. I by myself promoted Jaagore officially at Intel and am trying to make Intel a 100% voter registered organization. As engineers promoting the standard of higher education in India is another such goal wich we could all target, by being teachers/profs/funding researchers in universities etc etc. There are zillions of such opportunities! its just a matter of sitting back and spending some time on thinking what you can do.
The think its not the politics of things. Our system is wrong, we end up getting politicians who have teh number of votes but not the quality of votes.
If you have to blame someone, blame the people who do not vote and whine all day saying dumb people elected dumb leaders.
We are in the internet age and yet unable to talk to each other.
In an united voice the biggest of obstacles shall be over come.
Gandhi Movement needs resurrection.
Anonymous, thanks for your comments. If everyone said it was a great inspiring blog etc etc - it wouldn't have been as much fun. So you are a bigger cynic than I am.
When I the caption in NYtimes that people are ignoring the metal detectors at CST station just days after witnessing the horrible scene there, or my friend being told-off by the cop to whom she complained about motor-bikers driving on the foot-path meant for pedestrians it does make mine and all other speeches seem hopeless, futile and like you said cheap talk.
I for one try to practice what I preach. I actively work in the field of energy and environmental engineering. I won't bother with the details because considering you know I am a 'gazillion miles' away you probably know me. So energy awareness is well within the scope of what I do.
With rgd to women's empowerment- I volunteered at Refuge, the 24h helpline for victims of domestic violence, attend forums, discussions and campaigns organized by local NGOs and write to the media when I can. My friend ran the London marathon for Refuge even though everyone else around him made fun of the fact that he was doing it for such a 'vague, women's cause' and collected £3700after hearing about it from me.
Nothing revolutionary but I do what I can. I not only have an opinion like your average desi, but I do something about it.
There are many amongst us who work for the betterment of society and I believe in supporting these people's efforts. I happen to be an optimist despite all the problems. I also do despair when I see that like the funds being injected into the banks to cope with the sub-prime crisis, all the good work that a few people put in goes into the black hole of an indifferent society. But these funds are meant to keep the economy afloat, like-wise I am hoping the good work will do too.
You'll say it all sounds preachy- doesn't matter. Your apathy is understandable if you have tried earnestly to bring about some good change and failed because the system did not respond. Otherwise you are just using your 'freedom of expression'. I know that I haven't tried that hard yet and hence the 'visionary' behavior. If things don't work I ll join you in giving gaalis.
Thanks for wishing me luck
-Ramya.
@Susu..Suresh, I agree that it seems very hypocritical when NRI's whine about these things...and that is one thing which has kept me away from being very vocal abt these issues.
But as you mentioned there has to sacrifices made by few individuals to clean the system. The problem is no one wants to be the first...Its easy to join the bandwagon when everything is up and running, but it takes b!@#s to be the first one to jump in and do something unselfish....All these empty words and good intent mean nothing unless we can back it up by strong actions.
@Ramya - Yes, it was freedom of expression. No, i am a realist, not a cynic. No, i haven't tried "it" for India. Will not, ever.
We were ruled by the Mughals for hundreds of years. Then by the British. Now by your garden-variety goondas-in-Gandhi-topis. Do you detect a pattern? I do.
Oh, since i am ranting, Nehru was an asshole. RIP asshole!
And while we are at it, let me ask you something. Who is the poorest, most helpless person you know PERSONALLY? Not through the fake-ass NGOs, not through mailers or magazines, not through the tube, but in real life? Have you ever gone hungry because you did not have money to buy food? Or ever felt humiliated because you did not have an education? I guess not.......so how can you ever change stuff that you don't even KNOW about? That you possibly cannot even UNDERSTAND?
You think you can uplift the boy who was born to a share-cropper in Saharsa, Bihar and could not go to school and was possibly a lower class/untouchable? What plan do you have for him? 'Cos that's a snapshot of where most of India lives.........
If one is born in India, and lives there for some amount of time, you realize quick that the only way to survive is to be rich and insulated. Other than that, India is a poor, hungry, wretched, divided, inward-looking amalgamation of unfortunate souls.
The whole irony of the situation is that because some South Mumbai types lost their lives, there were 3 days of international TV coverage. I didn't see no 24X7 2006/2007 coverage on CNN, maybe you saw some, since i am assuming you keep on top of things related to India (sarcasm intended).
I don't think you have stayed in India long enough to actually know how it goes down. But i am dead earnest when i wish you luck. 'Cos the things you seem to want to do, will require a lot of it. And they will require money too. Lots of money. So my sole suggestion for the night is, get rich. And then put your money where your mouth is.
Otherwise, you may impact just one or two lives in India. And that's not gonna change a damned thing in that god-forsaken place.
To plagiarize my favorite news anchor, "good night, and good luck".
-- R.S.
Anonymous- I am glad I don't think like you.
Just because I haven't lived in India long enough and wasn't born into wretched poverty does not in anyway undermine what I or others like me are trying to do. If it weren't for the 1/2 or 1 life that we typically end up improving, millions would miss out on a lot more help than they are getting at the moment. It's not a perfect world- so things take time and you tend to throw a lot of good money behind bad.
So I didn't give the situation in India a serious thought before- so what? I suppose you are holding it against the entire nation that it took THIS event to get them to file a PIL and nothing in the past. Yeah yeah it's all Facebook's and Obama's campaign managers' fault- had they not shown us how effective a tool it is to voice public unrest, who knows, maybe we woudn't have said or done anything even now.
Rather than waiting to make my first million by which time I may or may not even be alive I decided to start yesterday!!
For a person who seems to have probably lived in India long enough to catch the coverage of every life that's ever been lost since the day you were born you seem to be waiting for the moment you'll sign off your first big pay cheque to build happy-haven Anonymousnagar.
Sorry, but I DON'T think I have to have the perfect rags-to-riches story Made-In-India or make the Forbes 50 richest to believe my words and actions will make a difference. I suppose Gandhi doesn't count cause he spent 27 years outside India which included a 'British' education and didn't wait till he gave G.D Birla a run for his money.
I completely agree Nehru AND his offsprings fked up a lot for us.
@Ramya
I wrote a long rebuttal, then thought what-the-heck and erased it all. I am a very poor debater, plus this is hardly the medium.
1.) If India was a stock, I would be shorting it hand over fist.
2.) I am realist and you are a Pollyanna. I am positive you view it differently though :)
3.) Gandhi, like certain other figures of that time, is over-glorified for his part in 1947. The man was a saint. I will stop at that.
4.) Incendiary point here: IF you believe that India will really not change in your lifetime, and you still try to help these 1/1.5 people, is it really for THEM, or is it a cheap shot at some personal salvation of the soul??
-- R.S.
Anonymous- if you insist on being an Internet Troll, not much I can do.
I will say this about your comment -"is it really for THEM, or is it a cheap shot at some personal salvation of the soul??"
I know many who are like that, infact so-called intellectuals with their gung-ho views on everything are screwing it up for the rest of us already.
But I don't feel the need or the inclination to convince anyone beyond a certain point.
Try taking a journey from Kalyan to CST looking at the faces of the people around and arriving at the fact-driven hypothesis(as most McK Consultants will do)....
A common man has to earn his living, raise his children and take care of his parents, before even thinking of anything beyond. Considering this, they can at the most only afford to discuss the situation/incident/event and still continue to travel by the same local trains because they hardly have any other option. There are only handful of youth(for e.g. we IITians) who can afford to take the first steps to accelerate the change... and I wish to Congratulate all such people who are doing it rather than just talking about it...
I hope some of the desis will comeup with something that people back home will be able to proudly tell about...
susu, pointy - you guys said it da. "I dont think most of us can handle the sacrifices we have to handle with working for the country, pay-cut being the most trivial one!"
"The problem is no one wants to be the first...Its easy to join the bandwagon when everything is up and running, but it takes b!@#s to be the first one to jump in and do something unselfish"
I can't and won't add anything to that since I am no exception.
mallesh - the lokparitrana guys are someone like us who had started the process. The path they took is potentially a good example for the rest to follow. A few things though- I checkd out their webpage and with all due respect for what they have done (and a lot of respect at that cause you and I haven't done it)..I wasn't too impressed with them. Their policies weren't too clear except for the fact that they are right wing. I don't expect them to go all guns blazing, afterall they are a first attempt and we can only hope to get things right with time. But before the next wave of young people join politics, it is important to learn from the setbacks these guys have had and understand why they haven't had an effective 'lift-off' yet. -Ramya
It was quite interesting to read the blog and the debate. I felt that both RS and Ramya had some thought provoking points but probably could not completely understand each other’s point of view. So I thought of giving my two cents so to address the intended purpose of the blog. This whole episode reminds me of a recent movie “ Yes Man”. In the movie, besides the entertainment, moral of the story was that when any person says “no” to any idea that person is missing out on an opportunity. On the other hand, If someone says “Yes” that person is bringing out the positive energy. Quite obviously that is NOT always true but it is valid more often.
I believe human beings in general and Indians in particular have the tendency to second guess the answer beforehand assuming we “know it all” in contrast to other races. I for one, reject the possibility that joining an AID or local NGO or any other group or going for a party might be a better option than sitting at home.
To come back to this topic, it appears that Ramya is doing something indirectly for the society and wondering about the possibility of a direct involvement to address some of the issues of the society. On the other hand, RS a “realist” presumably knows that direct involvement is easier said than done from his experiences. But then the question is if someone knows why it is tough, it may be better to share the experience rather than wishing luck. Because the data of a praying and healing study (http://www.skeptic.com/reading_room/debates/afterlife.html) clearly point out that luck does not favor the desired outcome. I agree with Ramya that if we know the success/failure story and statistical data about the people who made such move, it may be a good start to know the feasibility of a direct involvement! Other point, in partial agreement to RS is that it will need a meticulous planning before jumping to bring out a change. For example, people are not going to vote and make anyone politicians just because of their educational or financial background. I agree with RS that it involves laying the groundwork by being part of the community.
So If Ramya is doing what she preaches then good for the society. We need more people like her.
-SAS
PS: I fail to understand that if someone is doing the social work or a charity, why is it questioned that whether the person is doing for THEM or self? Why it cannot be BOTH??
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